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YThursday, October 30, 2014





The world is too small. Especially singapore. It's freaking me out.

From crewroom


{ *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

YTuesday, September 09, 2014



Happy mid autumn festival! This is a random post~

I feel like going BKK, decide today and fly tomorrow kind.
Haha! I'm so random. LOL

And yup.
im Loving the lavender scent in the room *heh*

Been reading a new series of manga for the past week.
Holding on to my phone day and night till my eyes hurt.

Indulging in lots of mooncake recently as well~
Hahaa!

Went to bugis plus to spend my money throwing coins again.
Damn the 'prize stage'... Now they even gave me a card!
It's gonna be a vicious cycle.
Wonder why I like to play arcade.
Speaking of which... I also randomly feels like playing arcade basket ball and bishibashi.
(Bleah.. Apparently it seems like there is limited amt of ppl who can stomach that childish side of me) wuahahaha!!

And oh yeah~ I was happily playing with FIRE yesterday! Erm.. Nope.. I meant candles... :P


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YMonday, September 01, 2014





今天早上看到了小气鬼。
Bleahs.... #落荒而逃
哈哈哈哈哈.......


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YMonday, August 11, 2014





11:59

And yes, thank you ben :)


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YSunday, August 10, 2014



Weekends

11:48PM

Just came back from BBQ.
I'm soooo full that I probably get sick of food at least till tml morn.
HAHA...

Owells... Been feeling QUITE unwell recently.
Feels giddy and fuzzy. It's like feeling alcohol intoxicated even when I'm not drinking.
Having headaches more than ever. Sad... Wonder what's happening to my body.
There goes my sparkling clean medical record. LOL

Had family lunch at amk ichiban sushi~
For the very first time, my younger brother actually sponsored $50 for the family outing.
So freaking touched. He had grown up! *sob sob*
(Fyi, My family usually lunch or dinner out but we will split the bill among the 3 working adults)
And the 3 of us includes my elder bro n sis plus me.
NOW that my younger brother gets a NS salary...
He technically dont leech allowances from my parents.
HAHA..... So I guess my mom is über happy today~
Wheeeeeee

As for Saturday.
Celebrated alvin tan chin min's birthday.
Awesome dinner at Concorde hotel (the BBQ Beef place)
Can't rem the name. Yamazaki? I can't recall. Lol~

After that chillax at CMPB at Dempsey. And moved on the crewroom at Liang court.
It was a surprise planned by jojo Koh anyway.
Seems like Alvin is really touched.
N oh yah.. Happy birthday alvin! :)
Thx for being an awesome friend even thou u also seems like u don't care.
HAHA...

Good night.
The whole of next week shall be more of a recuperating week.
Ooooommmmmmmmm.....


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YTuesday, August 05, 2014



#大难不死必有后福

12:16AM

Admitted to changi hospital A&E by the clinic via ambulance on Saturday.
Pipo pipo... What an experience...... (So drama. Was put on the stretcher. Zzz)

Anyway, I had high fever and a nasty drug allergy.
Therefore causing my face/eyes to swell and having extremely low blood pressure.
Apparently I need immediate medical attention and must b on drip.

Zzzz.......  Anyway, I'm discharged and is recovering nw.
So no worries ppl! And thx for all the concern n well wishes.

Gd night! :)


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YFriday, August 01, 2014



The Guy You Date VS The Guy You Marry


Saw some Facebook shared article and found it quite true.
As I have met both types of guys.
HAHAHA...

Just so you know which kind is a keeper.
Anyway they missed out a point.
The guy you date probably have more pattern than the guy you marry that will maybe makes you think that the "dating" guy is probably better. 

#sotrue

ESP point 4. Someone once told me the reason why he is interested in me is due to the fact that I'm one of a kind that can keep him interested for the long run. (So that he won't feel like what? Sian of me? Seriously?) That doesn't even sounds like a compliment FYI.


1. 

The Guy You Date: Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you’re attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis or obsessing over Fall Out Boy. He is hoping you will be a good match for him.

The Guy You Marry: Thinks about what he has to offer you. He loves you because of who you are- he appreciates your quirks, your flaws and strange sense of humor, the way you snort when you laugh and read Charles Dickens every winter, and everything he’s come to know about you. He is hoping he will be a good husband for you.

2.

The Guy You Date: Is quick to become jealous when you’re around other guys. He gets angry easily, which often ends up in long, petty arguments. He is possessive over your time, and although that can be cute at times, it can also become just downright annoying.

The Guy You Marry: Places his trust in you, and gives you the benefit of the doubt. He tries to understand your point of view before asserting his own, and is willing to give you space when you need it. He is always open to talking things out, and continues to exercise patience that you may not always deserve.


3.

The Guy You Date: The guy you wear make-up for. You spend hours preparing for a date because you want to impress him. You want him to think you are pretty and you hope he will give you a kiss at the end of the night, reminding you that he’s yours.

The Guy You Marry: The guy who you are no longer self-conscious around. He tells you that you are beautiful with or without makeup, because he loves you for your heart, mind, and soul. You don’t need his kiss to affirm his affection, but he gives you one anyways, which still sends butterflies fluttering around inside your stomach.

4.

The Guy You Date: He’s a mystery. You like that he is a puzzle for you to solve, and you try to be enigmatic around him as well to keep him interested. You’re afraid that eventually, you may grow bored of each other.

The Guy You Marry: You know him like the back of your hand. You let down your guard around him because you feel comfortable with revealing all your secrets to him. Although there are times when you are bored out of your minds together, you are still happy just to be in each other’s company.

5.

The Guy You Date: The guy you have fun with; the guy you are with because you have feelings for him.

The Guy You Marry: The guy you have fun with, but also cry with, laugh with, fight with, love with, and will be with for the rest of your life. You have feelings for him, but you are not with him solely because of your emotions. You are with him because you will love him apart from how tired, depressed, or angry you feel. He understands that loving you denotes sacrificing his time, energy, and other aspirations, and is still more than willing to make the commitment. He loves you not with a selfish or envious love, but with a patient, enduring, humble, faithful and selfless one.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs. It does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.” -1 Corinthians 13:4-7 


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YThursday, July 31, 2014





6:10pm

I'm not stingy, but it's always very frustrating when you go back office and find your phone charging wires go missing. And due to all the plugging and unplugging, I think my wire have STDs and is now unable to function properly :(

Oh yah... I'm not posting this in particular to the person who borrowed today. #truestory

BUT so happen that I'm charging my rechargeable batteries, and it got plugged out.
Nope, not angry. Just....... Feeling very... Erm... 无奈

Wanted to very much put a note on my desk to NOT PLUG my wires.
But find it very childish and stupid. Or even.. LAME
Like some stingy meow meow cat.

BUT the amount of wires I have changed is alarming.
Due to wear and tear. AND to prevent this..... I have buy some wires for my colleagues to prevent them from plugging mine. THEN %#€£$@&...
The new batches of colleagues keep borrowin WITHOUT permission. Which is actually fine. Since wire are cheap stuff.

Oh f.... I just want to rant v badly.
As I think I need to buy another wire to replace my NEW (3week old) wire AGAIN!

Ok....... :(


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YTuesday, July 22, 2014



1:33AM

Insomnia .. Again :(

Drank too much coffee today >.<~
Since i cant Slp...


Self declare Goody girl on Monday.
Went home early to make my ultimate top shell.
Wheeeeeee.....

Totally spells awesome'ness

Btw.. All you need for my top shell recipe:
Slice the onions. Small ones. (2-3?)
And the chilli padi. (2?)
Plus squeeZe the lime. (5?)
Rem to add some plum sauce! (1 tsp?)
N abit of original sauce from the can. (1 tsp?)

All base on agarations. Taste to fine tune.
Btw I only use abt half a can. Hahaha..

And tadang!!

Oh yah.. I also tried adding some ready made Thai chilli sauce for a different taste.
Add about 1-2 tsp. and it will become the sweeter version!

SHIOK~~!!

Played arcade today like a baby~
Wasting hard earned money happily~~
Lol~~~~~
The game is to throw some coin and make sure it lands on some mark to win a prize.
So it's really literally throwing money away. HAHA
Win some nonsense prize to add on to my garung Guni collection! Hahaha~~
Played at bugis plus prize stage. (Like u guys will know)

Lol... Random rants.
Going back to stare blankly trying to yawn and slp.
CIAO


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YMonday, July 21, 2014



现在

2.23PM

Finished my  appointment at marina square.
Sitting at the same spot eating LADYM confections cakes.
Enjoying every single bit of the cake.
Zero Monday blues :)



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Quite like this song recently :)


韩剧 秘密花园 中文版主题曲
  • 作词:杨宗纬
  • 作曲:全彗星

  • 有个男人爱着你
  • 用心爱着你
  • 那个男人爱着你
  • 彻底爱着你
  • 他情愿变成影子
  • 守护着你跟随着你
  • 那个男人爱着你
  • 心却在哭泣
  • 还需要多久 多长 多伤
  • 你才会听见他没说的话
  • 坚强像谎言一样
  • 不过是一种伪装
  • 他只希望有个机会能被你爱上
  • 还需要多久 多长 多渴望
  • 你才会走向他
  • 贴在他的身旁
  • 微笑像谎言一样
  • 是最起码的假装
  • 眼泪只能躲藏
  • 那个男人爱着你
  • 忘记了自己
  • 从此他小心翼翼
  • 静静等待爱情
  • 他情愿选择相信
  • 为了你不言不语
  • 那个男人爱着你
  • 伤埋在回忆
  • 无论要 多久 多长 多伤
  • 他还是爱着你 一如往常
  • 就好像一个傻瓜
  • 对着那空气说话
  • 他会不会有个机会能被你爱上
  • 还需要多久 多长 多渴望
  • 你再回头想他
  • 贴在他的身旁
  • 微笑像谎言一样
  • 是最起码的假装
  • 眼泪只能躲藏
  • 那个男人就是我
  • 你知道吗
  • 还是知道却假装不知道吗
  • 问到沙哑
  • 你也不会回答


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    YMonday, July 07, 2014



    Wonderful sundate :)

    1:08am

    Settled my craving for wagyu beef cubes from the costal settlement today!
    Yay~~!!! 
    Lovely brunch treats *smiling from ear to ear*

    After that went to shop for some furniture in ikea~
    Brought a new cupboard with 3panels of mirror!!!
    Muahahaahahaha~~!!

    Yay to more storage space for clothes!!!!
    Hehehehehe....

    Been a long time since I enjoy my Sunday..
    Feeling ohhhhh soooo gooood now! :P

    Anyway.. Still coughing badly and all :(
    Wish to recover asap so I can eat icecream or desserts again!
    Arghhhhhssssa... It's so difficult to abstain from cold drinks or food.
    And snacks and chocolates and everything fried and oily!!
    Sobssss
    >.<~!!!

    Monday is here again... :(
    Owells.. Might as well embrace it.
    July~ please be kind to me :))

    With love,
    Amazing Grace :)


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    YWednesday, June 18, 2014



    Some shared article from fb (dunno where's the link)


    Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
    People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.” Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there, doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
    Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
    Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they call at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens) and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
    At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
    The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, it’s learning to love the person you found.
    People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
    Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
    I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
    Because (listen carefully to this):
    The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, it’s learning to love the person you found.
    SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
    Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
    Love is therefore a decision. Not just a feeling.
    Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay and who you refuse to let go.


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    YTuesday, June 17, 2014





    3:56AM

    So today I learnt how to play dartslive from #CrewRoomSG @ Liang Court !
    Master jingwei insist I owe him a dollar and a dart. RAWR!!
    And HY didi bully me. Zzzzzzzzz

    Owells.. On the bright side!!!!!!! :D

    So glad so many of my friends came today :)
    It's not about spending money, but more of the thoughts that really counts.
    Can't tell you how glad I'm. Especially so when max and ningning is like dozing off.
    Despite being so tired but juz so to accompany me.
    >.<~!!!!

    Jospeh came too, unexpectedly. Even thou I'm like ranting to him NON-STOP.
    Of cuz my ah pong worldclass also came, no chance to HtHt.. But we WILL!!
    Surprise guest delvin too!! Hehe.. N jason!! Wahhhhh~~ plus Bernard!!!! N beekim baobei!!!

    Ok. Can't really describe how glad Im. Ivan actually wanted to come down, but I tot I will b leaving early... :((((
    In the end he needs to go for reservist.. (Didnt dare to ask him come down acc the noob fren me actually) so I rather he slowly make his way to reservist. >.<~~


    Thankew all~~!! It's has been an awesome awesome night!!!
    Left with only 3.5hrs to slp.

    Bless me :))

    At least...... My thoughts are at @crewroomsg now. Not anywhere else.
    I'm thankful :)



    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YMonday, June 16, 2014





    What's happiness?


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    YThursday, June 12, 2014





    One can't control dreams and thoughts, it reflects alot.


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }





    好奇怪,真的是"想你的夜"


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    YTuesday, May 20, 2014



    #Throwback weekend post (I don't care) :x

    12:55am (oh! It's Tuesday alr)

    Half of my Saturday is occupied by work.
    Not mentioning that customer last minute put areoplane.
    Quite pissed as it was an early appointment and i was already in office.
    only notified me like 7mins prior to our meet up.
    owells, apologised and all so.... #iforgiveulak
    My weekends are still considered #great ! So..... LOL

    After my appointment at Thomson plaza, walked to Thomson V2 to have brunch at some cafe called novemeber8. Honestly? The food is not horrible, but not fantastic as well.
    Too ordinary for me to return, but the waffles are quite decent I think.
    Other than that? Is probably the setting of the cafe, located just behind my house at the ulu Thomson V2. Erm... Is actually inbetween Thomson imperial court and the famous upper Thomson prata house. Opposite the steam boat place. Behind the Aston coffee shop. Lol~
    Confusing but yeah... Hahaa.. Located in the middle of Thomson V2 and its quite Har go navigate if you're not familair. :P

    After that all went to my house to slack while waiting to eat dinner again. Hahaha~~

    Mookata at UpperThomson huay Hwang . $28.90 nett buffet. Eat until........
    Cut long story short, after that went talk cock sing song for some booze before all proceed home.

    As I'm having serious food coma, didnt last thru the night. HAHAHA!!! :x
    Opps. Tired nw. BYE~


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YThursday, May 15, 2014



    Adjusting

    Coffee addict by day
    Alcohol addict by night

    Adjusting body clock to working hours
    And craving for some drinks for better slp
    Having back and neck aches after exams :(

    Wants a getaway badly but also wants to work hard play hard
    RaWr!!


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YMonday, May 05, 2014



    Happy birthday my love :)



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    YWednesday, April 30, 2014





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSxYCMlkLsw&sns=em


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    2:32am

    My third night of insomnia :/
    Anyway, wasn't feeling very well today.
    Not the usual flu, owells...

    Went to see the doctor, and the doctor is so damn lousy as usual..
    Giving me strong pain killer with side effect?
    Zzzzzzzzz....

    Tryin hard to mug, but it's difficult to stay focus. Help! :(


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YTuesday, April 29, 2014





    12:53am

    Having my second night of insomnia.
    How rare is that.
    Grace Koh not being able to sleep?!


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YFriday, April 25, 2014





    12:25am

    How silly am I?
    I'm currently unwrapping my presents and feeling so damn good about it.
    Wuahahahaha hahahaa!!!!!!

    Received many Ang Bao too! Yay!!
    SHIOK!!

    Customized snake Ang Bao design from my mummy! Wheeee!!

    Aside to that, my whole family went to sing huat live seafood restaurant to eat crab at geylang.
    Costs us $427.80 for 7 of us. OMG~~~
    Will blog about the eating experience here soon.
    Lol~~

    Anyway the price has factored in the fact that we TRY not to order too much! Wth right? Lol!
    A dinner treat from my sis, my sis-in-law and my mum!
    Wooohoooo!!!!!


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }





    12.01am

    Afterall, I didnt get any birthday message from someone.
    Owells....


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YThursday, April 24, 2014



    Happy birthday to myself!!

    Thankewwww everyone for the well wishes!!
    With a lots of love,
    xoxo, grace :)


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YSunday, April 20, 2014





    3:41pm

    Falling in n out of slp
    This is bad............

    Feeling crappy now :(


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }





    4:45am

    Kinda just finish studying with jasline and jensen.
    camping at home ground. LOL



    Feeling extremely uncomfortable now :(
    Down with a nasty flu.

    Really hope I can get better or feel btr tml when I wake up.
    Got much more to mug :(


    Counting down to my graduation :)
    And my birthday of course (maybe not)
    Sighs.............
    Having birthday during examination period are the #WORSE

    What can I do on a wed/thurs night ;(
    Belated celebrations are really not my favourite
    *grumpy face*


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YWednesday, April 16, 2014





    1:31am

    Wheeee!! Finally my bedok bcm craving satisfied again!!
    #Friendship maximum!!
    Someone owe me bcm for dunno how many months alr~

    Although I waited for close to an hr?!!!
    But shall forgive... 看在十多年的交情上。
    哈哈!

    At least it's better than having no dinner.
    :p


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YTuesday, April 15, 2014






    Erm, ppl....
    It's just some random rants n quotes and all.
    Plus I'm being random :p


    Some quote from max, haha..
    人无百日好,花无百日红

    And mine!!!
    The grass is always greener on the side that you water it!!
    All you need is some sunshine!! :)
    (Last sentence is actually inspired by jasline)

    Everything will be okay in the end.
    If its not okay, it's not the end :)

    Bleahs.. :p


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    4:40pm

    Trying to study
    Drinking some random rose green tea and eating some choc strawberry cake
    Somehow hoping for some miracle
    #mad


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    YMonday, April 14, 2014



    Read abt some 10tips



    1.  Let go of old wounds through forgiveness.

    Every moment of your life you are either growing or dying – and when you are physically healthy, it’s a choice, not fate.  The art of maintaining happiness in your life and relationships relies on the fine balancing act of holding on and letting go.  Yes, sometimes people you trust (including yourself) will hurt you.  Being hurt is something you can’t avoid, but being continuously miserable is always a choice.  Forgiveness is the remedy.  You have to let go of what’s behind you before you can grasp the goodness in front of you.

    2.  Come clean when you make a mistake.

    An honest heart is the beginning of everything that is right with this world.  The most honorable people of all are not those who never make mistakes, but those who admit to them when they do, and then go on and do their best to right the wrongs they’ve made.  In the end, being honest might not always win you a lot of friends and lovers, but it will always keep the right ones in your life. .

    3.  Stop gossiping and start communicating.

    A good rule of thumb:  If you can’t say it to their face, you shouldn’t say it behind their back.  As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, and small minds discuss people.”  Life is much too short to waste talking about people, gossiping, and stirring up trouble that has no substance.  If you don’t know, ask. If you don’t agree, say so.  If you don’t like it, speak up.  But never judge people behind their back.

    4.  Give others the space to make their own decisions.

    Stop judging others by your own past.  Never act, judge, or treat people like you know them better than they know themselves.  They are living a different life than you are.  What might be good for one person may not be good for another.  What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better.  Allow the people in your life to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.

    5.  Do things that make YOU happy.

    If you want to awaken happiness in a relationship, start by living a life that makes you happy and then radiate your happiness into your relationship.  If you want to eliminate suffering in a relationship, start by eliminating the dark and negative parts of yourself, and then radiate your positivity into your relationship.  Truly, the greatest power you have in this world is the power of your own self-transformation.  All the positive change you seek in any relationship starts with the one in the mirror. 

    6.  Show your loved ones your kindness in small ways every day.

    Aesop once said, “No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.”  Nothing could be closer to the truth.  Always be kinder than necessary.  You never know what someone is going through.  Sometimes you have to be kind to someone, not because they’re being nice, but because you are.  Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

    7.  Say less when less means more.

    It takes some courage to stand up and speak; it takes even more courage to open your mind and listen.  Pay attention and be a good listener. Your ears will never get you in trouble.  The people in your life often need a listening ear more than they need a rambling voice.  And don’t listen with the intent to reply; hear what is being said with the intent to understand.  You are as beautiful as the love you give, and you are as wise as the silence you leave behind.

    8.  Let your love and trust overpower your fear.

    You never lose by loving; you lose by holding back.  No relationship is impossible until you refuse to give it a chance.  Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.  Without this trust, a relationship cannot survive.  You cannot just believe what you fear from others; you have to believe in the good faith of others.  If you are ever going to have someone trust you, you must feel that you can trust them too.

    9.  Accept, don’t expect.

    Unconditional acceptance is something we want, but rarely ever give out.  Remember, people never do anything that is out of character.  They may do things that go against your expectations, but what people do reveals exactly who they are.  Never force your expectations on people, other than the expectation that they will be exactly who they are.  Who they are is not what they say or what you have come to expect, it is who they reveal themselves to be.  Either you accept them as they are, or you move on without them.

    10.  Let the wrong ones go.

    Know your worth!  When you give your time to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your heart you will never get back.  All failed relationships hurt, but losing someone who doesn’t appreciate and respect you is actually a gain, not a loss.  Some people come into your life temporarily simply to teach you something.  They come and they go and they make a difference.  It’s perfectly okay that they’re not in your life anymore.  You now have more time to focus on the relationships that truly matter.


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YSaturday, April 12, 2014





    Every morning I will regret not slping earlier the previous night.
    And this is a vicious cycle. Haha!

    Rushing for appts like some mad dog...
    Nearly can't get a cab in time.
    On call like 5x or more.
    Shag shag shag......


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    YWednesday, April 09, 2014





    Feeling so shitty now.
    WORSE....
    The other free loader didnt get penalized.
    WORSE....
    How can a 3person team do a 6person work?
    WORSE....
    When ur clsmate refuse to go eat dinner with u. (Okay, this is #justsaying)
    WORSE....
    When you got to go home alone.
    In a freaking cold bus. (What?! Aircon no need $ wan ah?)

    Feel like spamming vulgarities. LOL
    I'm mad.



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    YFriday, March 28, 2014





    Show up
    Speak up
    Look up
    Team up
    Never give up


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }



    TGIF!

    Feels like watching a movie sooooooo badly! ;(

    But sadly, my weekends gonna burn for investment project. *sobs*


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    YThursday, March 27, 2014





    Make peace and not war (:


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    YMonday, March 24, 2014





    One does not simply do the same thing over and over again and expects a different result.


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    YWednesday, March 19, 2014





    Spent so much money on cab recently...
    Aiyo........ Cabbing to work every morning nowadays.
    How?? :(
    But I'm too tired to squeeze in bus/train. In fact... The thoughts of getting my own very car seems so appealing to me!! *SPARKLING BRIGHT EYES*
    (Soooo long nv drive alr, kinda even forget how to park. Lolololol)

    And SG cabs availability during peak hour SUCKS!
    Waited like 25min for my cab.
    #ifonly I take bus. *WA LAO EH*



    Always #thankful for all the nice people around me :)

    So.. My 2014.......
    BE KIND, Everyone is fighting their own war
    Accumulating tons of good karma points ^^


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    Long day................

    Back and neck breaking already.

    Need a full body massage so so so badly to at least perk me up abit.

    Totally no time for jogging or boxing. Sad...

    Doing my favorite most #boliao past time now.
    NOTHING. Just stoning and using my phone.
    Check some fb, ig, mails...
    N here blogging~ lOl... So random.

    Another 2more months to go before I can graduate.
    Looking forward to receving bears and flowers and cards!
    Hahahaa~~!!! And not forgetting to reward myself with something decent.

    Wheeeeeeeee~~~!!!

    And for now, it will be studies first and work secondary.
    No choice, afterall I have been mugging for the past 22months.

    #blessme <3 p="">


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    YMonday, March 17, 2014



    又是一天

    And so.. it's monday.

    gawdd... the most hated day :(

    but anyway...
    Feeling much much better now. AhahaAa...

    Guess what?
    I have been reading troll posts from fb.
    Like those auto correct texts.
    OMG, totally LAUGH DIE ME can!!!

    And also not forgetting my daily dosage of SGAG!
    Their stuff really ultimatum. LOVED IT!

    Sometimes in life we just need to see outta the window!
    (Not just the damn wall~!! Wuahahaha)


    Owells.. #心烦气躁 #恼羞成怒
    but still manage to make lots of calls today and crazily set 7appt.
    It's SOO WOAH~~ haha!! Dear march, be kind to me.
    In need of sooooo much luck! >.<~~


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }





    睡不着觉


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    YFriday, March 14, 2014



    Read about the 3men Every girl dates from someone, sounds #legit :)


    When I was a little girl, I had a very simple notion of love. 
    He’d be tall, dark and handsome. 
    But growing up, I was told there were many different types of men 
    – the Bad boy, Mr. Nice Guy, the Alpha Male. 
    The list goes on. 
    These categories are nothing more than meaningless stereotypes. 
    In life, every girl really only dates three men:

    1.     Youth – the right person you meet at the wrong time

    He’s the one who wrote you love letters. 
    He’s the one who tried to get your number at school. 
    He’s the one who won your heart through childish means. 
    He’s the one you took long train/bus rides with. 
    He’s the one who stole all your firsts 
    – your first date, your first hand-hold, your first kiss, 
    your first walk home, your first couple item. 
    But he is also the first you lose. 
    Not because you didn’t love him. 
    But because growing up, you realize that in life, 
    some stay and others go, 
    and that sometimes we don’t just grow up, we also grow apart. 
    Youth – he was your first lover. 
    He was your first heartbreak.

    2.     Love – the right person you meet at the right time

    He’s the stranger-turned-best friend. 
    He’s the one that made you realize why things didn’t work out previously. 
    He’s the one that made the past heartbreak(s) worthwhile.

    He’s the boy who doesn’t just send you home, 

    but enters home hand-in-hand with you. 
    He’s the boy you date at home. 
    The one you cuddle at home while watching movies. 
    He’s the one you’d even bother watching soccer for. 
    He’s the one who holds your hand in town when you’re all glamorously made up,
    but he’s also the one who cuddles you when you’re in bed without make up.  
    He’s the one you grow up with. 
    You know it it's true when you witness how dates switched from crowded bus/train rides,
    to a private ride in his car.

    Unlike Youth, Love knows you inside out. 

    He always knows when you need a shoulder to lean on, an ear to rant to, or a hand to reach out to. He’s the boy you’re proud to bring home to your parents. 
    He’s protective like your father, annoying like your brother but loving like no other. 
    He’s the boy you see a future with. 
    He’s the boy you willingly forsake all other boys for. 
    For the lucky girl, Love is also the boy you grow old with. 
    For the average girl, Love simply is the one that got away.

    3.     Marriage – the wrong person you meet at the right time

    If you're the girl who got to marry and grow old with Love, stop here. 
    For Love = Marriage and the rest is irrelevant to you.  
    If not, read on.

    He’s the financially stable one. 

    He’s the career man. 
    He’s the one who wakes up donned in a work suit and oxfords. 
    He may not surprise you like Love did. 
    He may not excite you like Youth did. 
    He may not be as cute and dashing as Youth or as fun and passionate as Love, 
    but for once in your life, you worry less about growing apart while growing up. 
    For once in your life, you’re less worried about baring yourself to someone only to be torn apart.

    By the time you meet Marriage, you recognize love isn’t sufficient to sustain a relationship. 

    You recognize that fun and looks don’t last. 
    By the time you meet Marriage, 
    you’ve gone through sufficient heartbreaks to want to be spared another.

    Marriage is ultimately the one you spend the rest of your life with. 

    Not because he’s passionate, not because being with him is fun but because he’s what you need 
    - the stable partner who publicly promises to grow old with you, 
    in illness or health, riches or poor, for better or worse.

    A lot of us believe true love is about finding the “Right” one. 

    But true love really is more a matter of timing. 
    He may have been right at 19 but he may no longer be the right one at 27. 
    More often than not, we lose our loved ones because we grow apart while growing up.  

    Just like how time made wrong your relationship with Mr. Right, 

    time too can make right “the wrong one”.  
    And with time, you realize Marriage wasn’t the right one at the right time
    because he is the right one forever.


    Credits : http://jcheongwrites.blogspot.sg/2014/02/the-3-men-that-every-girl-dates.html?m=1



    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YFriday, March 07, 2014



    Xiang Ni De Ye - Guan Zhe (想你的夜 - 关喆) lyrics

    分手那天
    Fen shou na tian
    我看着你走远
    Wo kan zhe ni zou yuan
    所有承诺化成了句点
    Suo you cheng nuo huan cheng le ju dian
    独自守在空荡的房间
    Du zi shou zai kong dang de fang jian
    爱与痛在我心里纠缠
    Ai yu tong zai wo xin li jiu chan

    **
    我们的爱走到了今天
    Wo men de ai zou dao le jin tian
    是不是我太自私了一点
    Shi bu shi wo tai zi si le yi dian
    如果爱可以重来
    Ru guo ai ke yi chong lai
    我会为你放弃一切
    Wo hui wei ni fang qi yi qie

    [Chorus]
    想你的夜
    Xiang ni de ye
    多希望你能在我身边
    Duo xi wang ni neng zai wo shen bian
    不知道你心里还能否为我改变
    Bu zhi dao ni xin li hai neng fou wei wo gai bian
    想你的夜
    Xiang ni de ye
    求你让我再爱你一遍
    Qiu ni rang wo zai ai ni yi bian
    让爱再回到原点
    Rang ai zai hui dao yuan dian

    Repeat *

    Repeat **

    Repeat Chorus x2


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }



    Tian Hou 天后 lyrics

    终于找到借口趁着醉意上心头
    zhong yu zhao dao jie kou chen zhe zui yi shang xin tou
    表达我所有感受
    biao da wo suo you gan shou
    寂寞渐浓 沉默留在舞池角落
    ji mo jian nong chen mo liu zai wu chi jiao luo
    你说的太少或太多
    ni shuo de tai shao huo tai duo
    都会让人更惶恐
    dou hui rang ren geng huang kong
    谁任由谁放纵 谁会先让出自由
    shui ren you shui fang zong shui hui xian rang chu zi you
    最后一定总是我
    zui hou yi ding zhong shi wo
    双脚悬空 在你冷酷热情间游走
    shuang jiao xian kong zai ni leng ku re qing jian you zou
    被侵占所有还要笑着接受
    bei qing zhan suo you hai yao xiao zhe jie shou

    我嫉妒你的爱 气势如虹

    wo ji du ni de ai qi shi ru hong
    像个人气高居不下的天后
    xiang ge ren qi gao ju bu xia de tian hou
    你要的不是我 而是一种虚荣
    ni yao de bu shi wo er shi yi zhong xu rong
    有人疼才显得多么出众
    you ren teng cai xian de duo me chu zong
    我陷入盲目狂恋的宽容
    wo xian ru mang mu kuang lian de kuan rong
    成全了你万众宠爱的天后
    cheng quan le ni wan zong cong ai de tian hou
    若爱只剩诱惑 只剩彼此忍受
    ruo ai zhi sheng you huo zhi sheng bi ci ren shou
    别再互相折磨
    bie zai hu xiang zhe mo
    因为我们都有错
    yin wei wo men dou you cuo

    推开苍白的手 推开苍白的厮守

    tui kai cang bai de shou tui kai cang bai de si shou
    管你有多么失措
    guan ni you duo me shi cuo
    别再叫我 心软是最致命的脆弱
    bie zai jiao wo xin ruan shi zui zhi ming de cui ruo
    我明明都懂却仍拚死效忠
    wo ming ming dou dong que reng ping si xiao zhong

    我嫉妒你的爱 气势如虹

    wo ji du ni de ai qi shi ru hong
    像个人气高居不下的天后
    xiang ge ren qi gao hu bu xia de tian hou
    你要的不是我 而是一种虚荣
    ni yao de bu shi wo er shi yi zhong xu rong
    有人疼才显得多么出众
    you ren teng cai xian de duo me chu zong
    我陷入盲目狂恋的宽容
    wo xian ru mang mu kuang lian de kuan rong
    成全了你万众宠爱的天后
    cheng quan le ni wan zong cong ai de tian hou
    若爱只剩诱惑 只剩彼此忍受
    ruo ai zhi sheng you huo zhi sheng bi ci ren shou
    别再互相折磨
    bie zai hu xiang zhe mo
    因为我们都有错
    yin wei wo men dou you cuo

    如果有一天爱不再迷惑

    ru guo you yi tian ai bu zai mi huo
    足够去看清所有是非对错
    zhu gou qu kan qing suo you shi fei dui cuo
    直到那个时候 你在我的心中
    zhi dao na ge shi hou ni zai wo de xin zhong
    将不再被歌颂 把你当作天后
    jiang bu zai bei ge song ba ni dang zuo tian hou
    不会再是我
    bu hui zai shi wo


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }



    exclusive to my blog selfie! heh!

    Selfie! :)
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    BUSY likka BEEEEeeeeee~~~

    Took many days leave from work just to finish my assignments *sobs sobs*

    Investment assignment due date APRIL! (F~ my bday month lo)
    Strategic Mgmt is 10th MARCH!!!!!!! *FML*
    Leading for change is 12th MARCH!!!!!! *Equally F*

    sighs.... no mood do somemore. dunno wtf im here. lol


    { *we are talking about absolute GRACE* }

    YMonday, March 03, 2014



    Happy Birthday Juan Juan Juan :)

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    Celebration at 2Degree Bar ! *heh*


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